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The Problem With Todays Youth

2007-04-28

So while I'm online tonight, I get an IM from a stranger, wanted to know if i wanted to see someone's pic. I declined and shutdown the IM when they realized they had the wrong person. Then they pinged me again, wanting to know if I still wanted to see some naked guys pic. This is the actual conversation picked up after I was clarifying their actions:

 

jPBaBy2o1o [11:06 P.M.]: yuppp
ME [11:06 P.M.]: well, good luck with that
jPBaBy2o1o [11:07 P.M.]: o ive sent it to plenty of his friends..if he doesnt know already hes in for a rude awakening
ME [11:08 P.M.]: well I'm not sure what you are sending or how old you are, but I am guessing pretty young. Kinda childish, and if you were an adult you could be sued. I'd think about your actions and the ramifications
jPBaBy2o1o [11:08 P.M.]: im 19..and no i cant be sued its my property now i can use it however i want
jPBaBy2o1o [11:09 P.M.]: he gave it to his ex(my best friend)
jPBaBy2o1o [11:09 P.M.]: at his will
jPBaBy2o1o [11:09 P.M.]: and she gave it to me and we gave it to others
jPBaBy2o1o [11:09 P.M.]: hes 20 or 21
jPBaBy2o1o [11:09 P.M.]: so hes above 18
jPBaBy2o1o [11:09 P.M.]: so there isnt any legal stuff with age
ME[11:11 P.M.]: so, your bf ex had pics of him and her together I'm assuming naked, that was a private moment between them. He gave them to her, and now that they broke up she is distributing online, and you people think that isn't a problem?
jPBaBy2o1o [11:11 P.M.]: he took pictures of himself
jPBaBy2o1o [11:11 P.M.]: for her
jPBaBy2o1o [11:11 P.M.]: and it wasnt my bf
jPBaBy2o1o [11:11 P.M.]: my friends
ME[11:11 P.M.]: right. private pics not for distribution, he didn't sign a release
jPBaBy2o1o [11:11 P.M.]: he didnt put a copyright on it either
ME[11:12 P.M.]: and you sent it to his friends?
ME [11:12 P.M.]: you are naive
jPBaBy2o1o [11:12 P.M.]: sorry then
jPBaBy2o1o [11:12 P.M.]: didnt know youd get so offended over a naked guy
ME [11:12 P.M.]: I'm sorry for you, that you can't see how wrong your actions are. I don't get offended by male nudes, my house has them all over my walls
jPBaBy2o1o [11:13 P.M.]: how do you get them?
ME [11:13 P.M.]: just trying to point out the error in your thinking that you can't be in a host of trouble. He would be in his legal bounds to sue the crap out of the two of you
jPBaBy2o1o [11:13 P.M.]: he wouldnt
ME [11:14 P.M.]: there is a big difference between buying artwork, and stealing pics of someone and posting them online
jPBaBy2o1o [11:14 P.M.]: i didnt post them anywhere
ME [11:14 P.M.]: you said you sent it to his friends
jPBaBy2o1o [11:14 P.M.]: im just sending them to our friends
ME [11:14 P.M.]: via email
jPBaBy2o1o [11:14 P.M.]: i didnt post them on any website or anything
jPBaBy2o1o [11:14 P.M.]: no i do it through the im
jPBaBy2o1o [11:15 P.M.]: want to see?
ME [11:15 P.M.]: no..I don't need to be privy to you and your friends revenge
jPBaBy2o1o [11:15 P.M.]: you dont know him its not a big deal
jPBaBy2o1o [11:15 P.M.]: or us
jPBaBy2o1o [11:16 P.M.]: naked guys are beautiful and i know you think that too considering they are on your walls
jPBaBy2o1o [11:16 P.M.]: so why not?
ME [11:16 P.M.]: wow, grab a moral or two already, what do you hope to gain?
ME [11:16 P.M.]: how is sharing pics of someone I don't know demoralizing to him, if your point is just to embarrass them
jPBaBy2o1o [11:16 P.M.]: ok well im sorry to bother you then gnite..if you want the pic let me know but ill leave you alone now
jPBaBy2o1o [11:17 P.M.]: the pictures actually helped him
jPBaBy2o1o [11:17 P.M.]: so they arent embarrasing him
jPBaBy2o1o [11:17 P.M.]: noone said anything negative about it just positive so he shouldnt be embarrassed
ME[11:18 P.M.]: so if someone took your pics without your knowledge and sent them to people you knew you wouldn't care?
ME [11:18 P.M.]: or strangers for that matter?
jPBaBy2o1o [11:18 P.M.]: well if i ever took pictures of myself naked
jPBaBy2o1o [11:18 P.M.]: and sent them to a local friend
jPBaBy2o1o [11:18 P.M.]: i would automatically assume that they would show other people
jPBaBy2o1o [11:18 P.M.]: especially if there was a fight between us
ME [11:19 P.M.]: phhhht -please generally that is a trust issue
jPBaBy2o1o [11:19 P.M.]: well then why did he cheat on her?
jPBaBy2o1o [11:19 P.M.]: isnt that a trust issue?
jPBaBy2o1o [11:19 P.M.]: thats why they broke up
ME [11:19 P.M.]: well, again, I can't agree with your logic, I don't think your actions are motivated by "helping" him, if you are in a fight
jPBaBy2o1o [11:19 P.M.]: and thats why she is doing this
jPBaBy2o1o [11:19 P.M.]: i am just helping my best friend
ME [11:20 P.M.]: Well, people are going to do what they are going to do, but the universe is funny that your deeds come back to haunt you.
jPBaBy2o1o [11:21 P.M.]: probably but its fun while it lasts
ME [11:21 P.M.]: remember that when the universe kicks your ass
jPBaBy2o1o [11:21 P.M.]: lol
jPBaBy2o1o [11:21 P.M.]: so do you want to see the pics or not? so you can get a glimpse of the guy we've been talking about for 10 minutes?
ME [11:23 P.M.]: good luck, i'll keep my eyes peeled to Judge Judy to see if his case make it to tv. Hell no, I have my own collection, and I can guarantee you, I would never break the trust to share photos of someone with a stranger. Imagine it this way, consider yourself standing in the middle of the mall tomorrow handing out photos of this guy to what ever hand was extended. What's the point? None. Except you to do damage in your mind
ME [11:24 P.M.]: But as long as you are "helping" him in your logic, remember that is your defense
jPBaBy2o1o [11:24 P.M.]: why don't you add this to your collection then?
ME [11:24 P.M.]: cause i'm not interested. It has no meaning
ME [11:24 P.M.]: All kinds of levels of intimacy
ME [11:25 P.M.]: looking at some stranger..big whoo..million of pages out there of that (ATTEMPTS TO SEND ME PICS ANYWAY-I DECLINED INVITE ATTENTION [11:25 P.M.]: Instant Images session ended.
ME[11:25 P.M.]: have you figured out that I am an adult and have seen it all?
jPBaBy2o1o [11:26 P.M.]: then i dont understand what the big deal is
jPBaBy2o1o [11:26 P.M.]: ive seen it all too
WIT QUEEN [11:26 P.M.]: Then you never will
jPBaBy2o1o [11:26 P.M.]: im an adult
jPBaBy2o1o [11:26 P.M.]: but more never hurt
jPBaBy2o1o [11:26 P.M.]: so you have seen enough? never wanna see a naked guy again?
ME [11:26 P.M.]: Who said I'd never seen a naked guy again?
ME[11:27 P.M.]: You don't have a very logical thought process
jPBaBy2o1o [11:27 P.M.]: nevermind
jPBaBy2o1o [11:27 P.M.]: your right
jPBaBy2o1o [11:27 P.M.]: byw
jPBaBy2o1o [11:27 P.M.]: bye
ME [11:27 P.M.]: buh bye

Now in summary, this was a person pretending to be someone else, my conclusion it was the actual guy. I get hits all the time online, always out of the blue, guys wanting to share or trade naked pics. Years ago, I actually kept a DOTD or Dick of the Day file. If someone was stupid enough to email a stranger their penis, well it was fair game to comment on, which is what the guys usually wanted, well that and cybersex.Yawn. Been there done that, pass the sweet & sour shrimp. I was sharing this because I was unable to make this person understand the concept of right and wrong. Humanity 101. What a concept.

Hardcore_Pyro (2007-04-30)
The internet has created a place where there are no consequences for your actions. Btw – wanna see some naked pictures?????????? I kid cause I care. But, really. They’re hot!

surrogate (2007-04-30)
Brilliant people out there.

Barnabus (2007-04-29)
Incredible!!!cannot even make him to understand anything more than what he wants to do! No concept of right or wrong...morally corrupt...or dead!!

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